Porn For Women, Directed by Women.

"A NEW WAVE OF ETHICAL ADULT CINEMA PRODUCTION"

It's not a question of whether eating organic foods compared to fast food is the healthier choice, we all know the answer to that question. Being consumers of many different goods and services, we want to encourage this type of consumerism within adult entertainment as well. That begins with ethical production and distribution. These are the principles that FROLICME adheres too. So what's their mantra on women's sexual pleasure?

1. Women’s pleasure matters.

2. Diversity is central to creating groundbreaking new cinema.

3. Pay every person fairly, from interns to performers.

4. Make work that you can be proud of. We have nothing to hide, because we are proud of what we do. Mainstream porn sites like Pornhub.com, Exxxtrasmall.com, brazzers.com don’t show who they are: no names of producers and directors, no contact info, no one showing face, no pride.

5. Our shootings are a safe sex environment, with every performer providing up to date STD checks - and performers choose whether they wish to use a condom.

6. Every part of the shoot is discussed and agreed beforehand with all performers. We NEVER ask a performer to do something they have not agreed to or expect.

7. Every shoot includes multiple breaks, food and a welcoming, relaxed atmosphere.

8. Every Director or studio we feature on our sites is paid commission from the sale of their films. Pornography is such an important tool in exploring your sexuality and getting to know ourselves. What are our likes, dislikes, kinks . . . The more comfortable women are with that, the more confident we are in ourselves and our sexuality. When you assume sexuality is a natural fact of life, you can relax and explore more freely. Your tastes expand. The more expert you become, the more selective you can be as well. We should seek new types of porn and go beyond what we consider to be correct, acceptable, attractive. We will then see that these are just conventions sustained by mainstream porn.

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So what's all the hype about when it comes down to women directors creating pornographic films and photography specifically made for other women? It's Challenging mass produced mainstream pornography. It wasn’t until recent that I started to review this new frontier of women friendly porn. This is how I developed a spring in my step! But for the record, this is not just any old online porn website like youporn or PornHub – this was female-friendly erotic films. What exactly does that mean? Everything from the set design, Down to cinematography and music is professionally produced in a studio. The female friendly erotic films offer similar like-minded adult individuals something that they find acceptable while still achieving the goal of being naughty, sexy, stimulating and fantasy-fuelled. Sometimes I think that female-friendly porn is the last frontier for feminism, I'm personally NOT an active feminist however, after discovering that there is a squad of brave female directors out there in the adult erotic industry, I know that there is hope for us horny girls after all! When we look at porn featured on Brazzers, Pornhub, or other online porn sites- we see the same things over and over again, and many times it can often be demeaning or degrading to women. Take for example the most popular theme of a man jizzing all over a woman's face and then ending the clip, when did the woman in this video get hers? No where. Here are a few benefits of watching female erotic pornography and why you should try it!

1. IT GET'S YOU STIMULATED

If I’m being hand on my heart honest, it can take me a little while to get into the mood, even when I do watch pornography. Whether you are watching porn alone or together as a couple, it can help jump start the party but it doesn't always lead in the right direction. Foreplay is amazing and to be honest you'd likely need double the amount of foreplay before sexual intercourse.

2. FEMALE PORN STARTS CONVERSATIONS

Even with popular culture like 50 Shades of Grey, it’s easy to find talking about sex somewhat difficult. Having intercourse is an incredibly intimate thing to do with another person, of course depending on their relationship to you. Many of us may feel vulnerable and insecure about our bodies, especially while being completely exposed and naked.

FOR COUPLES: Watching erotic films together as a couple will allow you two to relate, why not comment, ‘Let’s try that later?’. You can say it with an ass eating grin on your face! You will not regret the end results! We have been inspired to try out new positions just from watching female-friendly porn. Of course, not all of them have worked (scissoring), but hey, at least we got a few extra laughs just from exploration and that was absolutely worth it!

3. INSPIRATION TO TRY NEW THINGS

I borrowed a few books on sex from the library to improve my technique in the bedroom. What a mistake! Often the advice incorrect, biased, and old-fashioned. Reading about bedroom moves in a book is hard to imagine, especially if you don’t know the names of each part of your sexual anatomy, and I'm not talking the short names that we all generally know - I mean the actual scientific name of the body part. Likewise, it can be difficult and quite annoying to know whose advice to trust online. Some sources about sex can be dubious at best, then in reality not many couples are of the right compatible heights to have sex standing up, or flexible enough to do some positions. Although the advice is great and it looks completely achievable, it's not.

If you are just learning about exploring your body, then watching a female pleasure herself can be very educational.

4. CONFIDENT FEMALE ROLE MODELS

It is so satisfying to see a female that is confident with herself and her sexuality. I personally love watching a confident women owning her sexuality. It’s super empowering and inspirational. The characters in female-friendly porn are relatable because like you and I, they are real people (or couples) with real lives. The scenarios are often doable, legitimate fantasies. The acting makes the scenes feel more genuine compared to the generic "pizza boy scene" you'd see in any other pornographic feature. It’s totally okay if his penis slips out, and pokes your thigh, the couples still continue.

5. FEMALE EROTICA ISN'T MALE CENTRIC

The majority of online porn is all about the males needs, wants, and desires. It’s created for a quick result and often leaves nothing to the imagination, sadly. Many popular free porn websites have a self-nominated ‘female-friendly’ category, but too many of these are often of poor quality with no sizzle. That is because they don't really focus in on female erotica when they have so much organic traffic (mainly males) jumping onto the website.

Regular porn leaves me disappointed and frustrated. I'm sure some of you women could agree. If you select the wrong video, you could be just about ready to climax and then there is a sharp change in the position or mood and that's a wrap! Everything you just worked up for has been completely lost. What I'm talking about is a pornographic clip that often ends with the male finishing off on the female’s face (aka a facial), which isn’t an appealing visual for many women. Porn for men is often all about him reaching a climax (the cum shot). Porno's made this way often leave me wondering…

• NO ALTERNATIVE ENDING? WHY COULDN'T THERE BE AN ALTERNATIVE ENDING?

• WHEN DID THE FEMALE GET OFF? LIKE SERIOUSLY, DID SHE EVEN CUM?

• THIS LITERALLY LOOKED LIKE 5-10 MINUTES OF FAKE ORGASMS...

In porn specifically created and made for women, you can see an equal give and take balance between both partners. It's harmonious and exhilarating!

Since I am such a Submissive type of lover, I discovered that it’s okay to be a female and take charge in the bedroom. At first it's difficult to achieve and be able to show this kind of dominance as it is something that doesn't appeal to me nor completely turn me on. If you've never experienced female erotica or female friendly pornography you should try it, it might be exactly what you've been missing!